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Overcoming setbacks in Mexico

The long trip to and from Mexico was totally worth it. The crowd was really awesome. Thanks to everyone who came out to support us at the show — I’m glad we did manage to fit in a “meet-n-greet” of sorts and were able to meet at least some of you! I got to meet Phillip from Horus, who had the coolest pinkie respect shirt for me. That was soooo thoughtful of you, thanks so much, Phillip!

Unfortunately I forgot to take my camera with me so I’ll be dependent on other people’s photos. But here are some of the first things that come to mind on my first morning home after the trip.

Time to come clean: I had doubts about doing a performance without any rehearsals. I mean SERIOUS, crippled-with-worry, oh-my-God-this-is-freaking-MADNESS doubts. Not doubts about the other Soppies, of course, but about myself.

For you guitarists who only play at home and don’t ever play live, trust me: playing live is completely different to playing in the comfort of home. For one thing, having to solo while standing up SUCKS; I play 100 times better when I can sit down. In fact, there’s some solo sections I physically can’t play unless I’m sitting down, so I have to change them for playing live. But even then, no matter how much I practice, the guitar pretty much feels like a strange piece of wood in my hands during solos when I am standing. It’s a bio-mechanics thing.

For another thing, playing at concert volume through a real cabinet and power amp feels completely different to playing at TV volume with headphones at home (like I normally practice). Even worse, when you play live you have to deal with any number of unforeseen distractions: things happening in the crowd, things happening on stage, dancing bananas ;-) , problems with your monitors or your gear — the list is endless. But the most debilitating thing (for me) is all the memories of every mistake I’ve ever made coming back to haunt me and making me lose what little confidence I have. It’s really strange how much your performance depends on your mental state; once the negative thoughts set in, they are really hard to shake and can totally put you off your game, making you totally screw up stuff you’ve played perfectly a million times. It’s terrifying, because you never know when it will happen. But if you can just relax and have fun, everything is so much easier.

Despite all my worries, I’m happy to say that from my perspective on stage the Mexican show rocked. And I’m so glad it did because it showed me that I actually can manage despite a long break, no rehearsals with the band, and not having much time to practice (I’d been working very long hours in the weeks before the show). This was a MASSIVE relief, because with our members spread out all over the globe we won’t always have the luxury of rehearsals before shows. But if we do play more shows in the future, my stress level should be much lower than it was this time thanks to this successful experience. (Good for everyone — a stressed-out, sleep-deprived Lorinator is not a lot of fun to be around.)

Because there are other guitarists among the readers here, I’ll give ya the lowdown on the amps ‘n’ valves: I have to say that the Rectifier/Pod combination was freaking MANLY (at least from where I was standing!). It would be interesting to compare (in a back-to-back blind test) with the Marshall I’ve used before, but my spontaneous (and totally subjective) impression was that the rectifier kicked the Marshall’s metal butt. And another gearhead thing I noticed: the combination of my favorite strings and Big Bend’s Nut Sauce (I’m not making this up) really does seem to work well. My guitar was easy to tune up after changing strings, and I don’t remember having to tune at all during the show.

Another good experience from this show was “pulling through with great aplomb” despite myriad problems and setbacks. Sound check was, errr, somewhat of a mess. For whatever reason, things that seemed very simple to set up (like power for our equipment) took a looooong time. And everything was late, late, late: our own sound check was massively delayed (for reasons unclear to me), and in turn we ended up keeping Xandria waiting a long time for their sound check. To their credit, the Xandria band members were very gracious and understanding about it. (I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t have managed so well had I been in their shoes.) I also heard that because everything was so late, that the doors didn’t open in time and people ended up having to stand waiting in the rain. For a long time. So sorry about that!

Anyway, everything was running late, and when we finally got started with sound check we had the joy of equipment getting broken. I didn’t see it happen, but Alejandro’s keyboard stand was not up to the task; it somehow got tipped over, sending the keyboards crashing to the floor and breaking two keys on the (borrowed) electric piano, rendering it unusable. No piano, no SoP. Luckily, a phone call or two to the right people and they had a new piano on the way for us. There was much rejoicing when it finally arrived!

But the problems didn’t end with broken keyboards. After sound check when Arjen was changing strings, the locking nut on his guitar broke. We didn’t have a spare guitar for either of us, so there would be no way for him to play unless we could somehow fix it or find a guitar for him to borrow. The one time we had no spares, and a guitar breaks! That Murphy guy will get you every time, I tell ya. Luckily, Pieter, our sound engineer, managed to somehow MacGuyver it back together using his ingenuity and the meagre collection of tools we had on hand (including a fake Leatherman), and it held up for the show! Kudos to Pieter for not giving up!

We also had problems with Johan’s wireless — the first one didn’t work, and neither did the second one they brought in. In the end, like 5 minutes before we were supposed to play, I let him take the one they’d arranged for me, because Johan runs around a lot more than I do and I’m pretty much tied to my pedal board anyway. I’m embarrassed to say that even though I had suggested it earlier on, I wasn’t very gracious about it when it came down to it that late in the day, mainly because I was worried that my sound would get messed up when they were hurriedly re-wiring my gear and that I’d have a horrible surprise during “Spellbound,” effectively killing my mojo for the beginning of the show. Luckily my sound was OK, probably one of the better on-stage sounds I’ve had, actually. And we got our jumping Johan :-)

The coolest thing was that the Soppies all kept their cool and stayed positive and optimistic through all the setbacks. The lovely people are definitely one of the best things about SoP :-)

That’s all I have time for today, but I’ll try to get some more posted tomorrow.

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17 Comments

+ Comment by paranoid android
2006-10-17 23:28:15

Wow, a great concert!!!

I have some pics from the signing session (i miss you :( ) here —> http://flickr.com/photos/paranoide0/ . And i wrote a review of the concert on my blog :p

Thanks for that wonderfull concert \m/

 
+ Comment by mcophie
2006-10-17 23:41:24

It’s great to hear that everything worked out and you had a good time, and what a confidence boost! Working right after flying home from Mexico though, you are quite the trooper :|

 
+ Comment by Rob
2006-10-17 23:51:22

Interesting post! Stay calm, and beat Murphey ;-)
You did all a great job, thumbs and pinkies up!

Indeed Mcophie, working directly after some very loooong days must be a very tough job.

Huggies and sleep well!

 
+ Comment by Maarten (aka Icey)
2006-10-18 00:04:05

Good to hear all the setbacks were overcome in the end and that the show rocked..

and working right after traveling half the globe and back with playing gigs in between is like whoa. I mean I generally take at least one day off after Wacken to regain my energies

 
+ Comment by Phillip
2006-10-18 00:34:30

Hi Lori!

YOU TOTALLY ROCKED THE SHOW!! And the crowd showed you that, am i right?
Your playing was almost flawless, i only noticed that your tremolo arm flipped once out of your hand, but that was a minor problem and you managed it quite well also!!
The meet and greet was really nice, and it was a total coincidence. I went to the lobby , cause i was falling asleep with anathema and what a surprise to find you there!!
The only thing that sucked was that guy who asked you about the rolling stones! I felt so ashamed. You flew so many miles to show mexico how the guitar should be played right , and that guy asks you that. It was almost the same with marcela and the radio guy. The first thing he asks is: which is your favorite soccer team?Dude!!!what´s wrong with you?
Anyway, hope you survive the busy week!!
Sleep well and good luck!!
Phillip

 
+ Comment by Juan
2006-10-18 01:24:26

First, it’s glad to read you again Lori! :)

I always thought you were more of a Marshall girl rather than a Mesa. I really like both, so don’t make me pick one.

So, after all, was it a good show, or a bad show? And how did Delfinius endure the whole trip to Mexico?

 
+ Comment by Gwen
2006-10-18 05:57:18

good to hear that you all enjoyed yourselfs in Mexico
worth doing again i think
and a great show by the sound of it, fabulous
well, back to the dayjob and keeping us informed :)
you’re the best for doing all that,
thanks and hugs,

Gwen

 
+ Comment by Aaron
2006-10-18 07:37:31

Hey Lori!!

You really kicked some arse in here!! I’m glad everything went alright despite the setbacks!! It’s always interesting to see what lies behind a great show, thanks for posting that!

I’m so glad you did the Meet ‘n Greet!! I met you and got a picture with you!! And all the band members were incredibly kind (thank you all)!! Oh, and for the record, I didn’t ask about the Rolling Stones, but I was glad your paper cut was fine for the time of the gig!

Thank you for everything!!
(sigh) Now I believe in love at first chord… (blushes)

 
+ Comment by Kristof
2006-10-18 10:01:15

Hej Lori,

Glad to hear everything worked out for you! Also glad to hear (or not hear) the paper cut.

As to playing sitting down: I have the same thing standing up :) I absolutely hate sitting down while playing. I’m working on sweep picking right now and while I do feel it works better when sitting down, I prefer standing up and walking around the room while trying. I find it frustrates me less, somehow.

Gearhead mode on! To me, Mesa is the absolute bestest amp to connect a Pod to. The Mesa Poweramps absolutely rock. They give an extra edge and a little more warmth to the sound but otherwise, they keep colouring as low as technically possible. I absolutely love Mesa and most of the sounds I have are etched on the Mesa rip-offs.

I heard about Alejandro knocking over his keyboard but I didn’t know it was that bad. And Arjen is lucky to have such a gifted technician.

I’m absolutely sorry to have missed this gig but I’m very happy for all SOPpies!

Hej da,

Kristof

 
+ Comment by Appelmoes??
2006-10-18 18:26:15

I’m very happy for you everything turned out ok, through all the stress, to little time and broken stuff.
It also makes me glad to see the mexicans posting like hell on the forum, just like we have done during the european gigs. It’s good to know more and more people get the chance to see you!
Next album: World-tour and sold-out stadiums! ;)

 
+ Comment by Stephen H
2006-10-19 14:11:57

Hi Lori

Glad that everything came together so well for you – (thought it would !)

BTW – sitting down playing ?! – NEVER think about getting/playing a UJR Sky Guitar then… (’tis strictly) “standing room only” !!!

Adios !

 
+ Comment by Kristof
2006-10-19 20:44:49

I’ve been thinking about how we play the guitar: me standing up, you sitting down. Maybe it’s a male/female thing :D

 
+ Comment by Lorinator
2006-10-19 21:14:57

Thanks for the good wishes, everyone. My paper cut actually got much better in time for the gig; I had a good friend sending me skin-healing wishes from afar :-)

Stephen, the combination of me and a sky guitar would be a baaaaad idea. I’ve already borrowed enough from Uli. But it sure would be fun to try one someday.

Kristof: Hah! At first I didn’t get that one.

I do love standing to play rhythm parts. Here at home I usually record rhythm parts standing up, usually clad in my jammies and playing a Gibson flying V. How’s THAT for a mental image? ;-)

My hands are so small that my wrist is at a horrible angle when I try to play solos while standing up. So I suppose it’s actually a small hands thing, or a leverage thing. My BF has big monster alien hands, and his wrist is at a completely different (much better) angle than mine, even though he wears his guitar much lower than I do.

 
+ Comment by IVON WALKER
2006-10-20 07:46:00

LORI!!
I TOLD YOU I DROVE 20 HOURS JUST TO SEE YOU PLAY GUITAR,MAYBE IT WAS SOMETHING CRAZY BUT IT WAS GREAT,WHEN I ARRIVED TO DF,I WAS TIRED,WET,BUT MY REAZON WAS STRONGER THAN ALL,YOU ARE REALLY GREAT,I’M GUITAR PLAYER TOO,AND I KNOW HOW IS THE FEELING ABOUT WHEN THE CROWD IS SCREAMING AND YOU CAN PLAY FOR ALL THEM, IS FUCKING GREAT!!
AND THE BEST THING ABOUT ALL THIS IS THAT YOU ARE A GIRL!!AND YOU ARE A GREAT,EXCELENT PLAYER,YOU ARE SOME KIND OF INSPIRATION FOR ME WHEN I PLAY MY GUITAR,I HOPE SOME DAY PLAY IN SOME PLACE AND YOU CAN GO TO SEE ME
KISSES
AUF WIEDERSEHEN

 
+ Comment by Lorinator
2006-10-22 12:21:34

Ivon, many thanks for your sweet message. What an honor to have someone go to such trouble to come see us. I’m really sorry about the long wait in the rain, but there wasn’t anything we could do. In fact, we usually find out about stuff like that after it’s too late to do anything about it.

 
+ Comment by Joop
2006-10-23 08:53:14

Looks like an all out adventure there!( You should have played in Holland less problems there on stage LOL)
Glad that in the end everything went well.
About the playing live thingie, i do not understand why it is difficult for guitar-players (seriously). Isn’t it true that when you played your songs over and over, it will become a bit of “automated” playing (without being boring of course). You must have played these songs for about a thousand times or so (party time @ the 1000th one?;-) )
I know and read Kristof has the same issue, but i keep wondering…
One thing i can think of; you (as well as Kristof & me) are putting you own musical standards way high, to get better and give the best.(which we should). Could this be an obstacle as well?
Greetz

Joop

 
+ Comment by Neo
2006-12-29 07:11:46

Joop, you will understand it when you play live, with the keyboards happened the same thing..

 

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